I've been married for almost a year not but the adjustment is a bit hard I know in both of our part its a bit hard, it really need some effort.
I use to think that if you are married both will focused on their family, they should start saving for their future while planning for babies but right at this point in time I think one of us is still focus on his side of the fence.
He is the one making a living so i don't really have a say on where he spent his money. The best advice I got so far is to work and save so when the time comes that i am pregnant i wont have to worry about things because i already have savings.
